Don't Do It... Unless...

When we like someone.... We find it easier to change ourselves and do things for them, which we are usually not very comfortable doing... And when we become a part of each others verrrrrrrrry routine life, we get tired of being someone we are not... end up criticizing others for all the happenings and start moving away from them..

Whose mistake is it???

Of the doer??? for guising as some one hes not.. and sending out the wrong signals???
Or of the other person??? for making him do things... he never wanted to???

for a silly example, I have a friend who doesnt like getting drenched in the rain... to be more precise... hates it... but got himself drenched a few times bcoz... he wanted me to be happy.... ( very sweet of him :P)
One grumpy day... blame it on my stars :P.... he was in no mood for such childish acts... On asking to do the same thing... he got irritated and as a punishment ( ufff 8-)... strong word :P ) asked me to stand in rain.... :S I stood der..soaked from tip-to-toe... :( until I was sick of it.... :(

Now... who is to be blamed??
Me for starting the stupid game in the first place...??? or

He for encouraging, it all the while...??? 

"It takes two to tango"... and this case is no exception...

I am not here to take sides, put up an argument or to make a statement
but just to say...

"Don't Do something... Unless... You really want to... "

Being someone you are not, You can please people for a while... but not forever.... :)

Keep Smiling :)